Watch out for ‘romance fraud’ on dating apps

Researchers are identifying how scammers target victims on dating apps.

As Valentine’s Day approaches, the use of dating apps by people looking to make new connections ramps up. Unfortunately, as people are looking for love, scammers are looking for ways to steal their money.

The new research in the American Journal of Criminal Justice exposes the tactics used by scammers to gain users’ trust and make them vulnerable to cybercrime.

The phenomenon known as “romance fraud” is both often underreported and understudied, says Volkan Topalli, a professor of criminal justice and criminology and an associate with Georgia State University’s Evidence-Based Cybersecurity Research Group.

“We have this explosion of crime taking place online. In the physical world, maybe you can scam one or two people at a time. But thanks to social media and technology, a scammer can send an email or chat message to hundreds of people at once, just trawling for victims,” Topalli says.

“The scammers are effective because they are experts in extracting funds from people, and they’re also experts in identifying a vulnerable target.”

A cybercrime report published by the FBI in 2021 found that online romance fraud losses have skyrocketed in recent years, reaching almost $956 million. That makes it the third-ranked cybercrime overall in terms of losses.

The goal of the research was to identify risk and protective factors for those targeted by so-called romance scammers in order to develop a model for victim vulnerability and resilience, says primary author Fangzhou Wang, a doctoral student in the criminal justice and criminology department.

“We really wanted to take advantage of open intelligence data sources to find out what these fraudsters were doing that was so effective. The purpose is to identify patterns and uncover strategies that users can adopt to protect themselves,” Wang says.

The researchers gathered data from online testimonials on websites where victims share stories and warn others, including stop-scammers.com and male-scammers.com, where they were able to review nearly 10,000 vetted reports.

Using data analysis software, they created a romance fraud victim database using testimonials as a basis for analysis. They then analyzed the victims’ stories to identify overarching themes.

The testimonials included those from victims who were approached on social networks like Facebook and Twitter, or on dating sites, including Tinder, Ashley Madison, and OkCupid.

The researchers identified a number of techniques and forms of deception that were most common and most successful for scammers. They include things like using visceral, emotional triggers or influences; manufacturing a crisis; exploiting likability and similarity; or eliciting the victim’s sense of guilt.

Another common tactic used by scammers is to quickly ask their victims to migrate the relationship away from the app to a private email or messaging format (like WhatsApp or Google Hangout) in order to isolate them. Often, scammers will also pressure the victim to make quick decisions.

Other red flags include online suitors refusing to have conversations on the phone, or not sending recent photographs. Of course, the biggest warning sign is that someone is asking you to part with your money. Topalli recommends checking any new online relationship against a third party, like a trusted friend or family member.

The researchers also identify common risk factors for potential victims. They include a lack of familiarity with technology, which is often seen in older people. Young people are also vulnerable because they may be overconfident or inexperienced with initiating a relationship online. Unsurprisingly, others who make a good mark for scammers are those who have been through broken relationships and are simply looking for companionship.

The research team says it’s likely that the number of victims is vastly underrepresented, taking into consideration things like victim shame or even self-incrimination. Sometimes victims won’t event accept that they’ve been scammed when confronted with evidence.

“They’re sort of hoping against hope that it’s a real thing. There are numerous stories of people who just say, ‘No, I love this person, you’ve got it wrong’ and then they will continue in the relationship,” says Topalli. “It’s painful to hear the stories.”

Wang says that since fraudsters tend to use very similar linguistic cues to deceive victims, online service providers could develop algorithm-based predictive tools to detect fraudulent attempts against potential victims that can be built into the dating and social media sites.

“Potentially, dating and social networking sites can draw from the information from our study to launch educational or awareness programs for those who were previously victims, and those who may be potential victims,” Wang says.

Romance fraud often results in not only financial loss but also long-lasting psychological trauma. The research indicates that victims of online romance scams undergo a traumatic psychological aftermath similar to victims of domestic violence. Wang says she plans to explore further research utilizing surveys and interviews to dive deeper into the mindsets of offenders and victims in the cyber world.

“There’s nothing wrong with starting a relationship online. But you’re basically putting yourself out in the Wild West,” Topalli says. “You always want to keep in mind what we call ‘cyber hygiene,’ which means really looking at your interactions online and the apps that you use and being very cognizant of protecting yourself.”

Source: Georgia State University

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Indiana corrections officer fired for punching inmate

A white correctional officer in southwestern Indiana who is seen in body camera footage punching a Black inmate during a struggle has been fired.

Monroe County Sheriff Ruben Martè said Friday that the decision to terminate James Mitchell was part of his vow to make “accountability and transparency” a “top priority” of the sheriff’s department.

Mitchell and two other officers at the county jail in Bloomington were attempting to move Marcus Ford from a holding cell to a medical observation cell Jan. 31 after the inmate complained of health issues to nurses at the facility.

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Ford refuses to leave the holding cell. In the footage released by the sheriff’s office, Ford is seen threatening the officers if they try to move him.

“Soon as you touch me, it’s going down,” Ford says. “You all better know how to fight.”

An Indiana corrections officer has been fired after video showed him punching an inmate during a struggle.

An Indiana corrections officer has been fired after video showed him punching an inmate during a struggle.

He later repeats: “I’m not going in that room. I’m not going in that room.”

As the officers move in, Mitchell is struck in the mouth and suffers a bloody lip. He is seen throwing punches at Ford’s head and striking Ford as the inmate is being restrained by other officers.

Martè said Ford suffered a broken nose and broken orbital bone.

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A document detailing the decision to fire Mitchell states that he failed to transition to nonviolent strategies, failed to reduce the need for force and failed to comply when instructed twice to leave the area, WTTV-TV reported.

“No corrections officer wants to have to use force when they come to work,” Martè said. “But even when my staff is forced to use force due to a combative inmate, they must continue to follow our policies requiring de-escalation whenever the situation allows it.”

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Martè ordered an internal review and asked the state police to conduct an independent investigation. The state police presented their findings to the county prosecutor who decided not to press criminal charges against Mitchell.

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Florida lawmakers vote to back expansion of DeSantis' migrant relocation plan



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Florida lawmakers on Friday approved an expansion of Gov. Ron DeSantis’ controversial program to relocate migrants, giving the Republican leader authority to transport individuals from anywhere in the country.

The measure, now headed to DeSantis’ desk after passing the GOP-led House on a 77-34 vote, would allow his administration to pick up where the governor left off last year when he sent two planes of migrants from San Antonio, Texas, to Martha’s Vineyard, Massachusetts. The attention-grabbing act thrust DeSantis into the middle of the national debate on immigration, earning the potential 2024 hopeful praise from conservatives and widespread condemnation from migrant advocacy groups and the White House.

The program had stalled amid multiple legal challenges and questions as to whether the DeSantis administration had violated state law by rounding up migrants in Texas. The budget law that created the $12 million program specified that the money was set aside to relocate “unauthorized aliens from this state.”

At DeSantis’ urging, lawmakers meeting in a special session this week voted to remove the restriction on where the state could pick up migrants. The program would also come under the purview of the Florida Division of Emergency Management. Because DeSantis has declared a state of emergency related to immigration, this would allow the administration to award millions of dollars in no-bid contracts to companies to move migrants across the country with little public disclosure.

The legislation comes as Florida has experienced a spike of migrants from Cuba and Haiti attempting to reach the state’s coast by boat. However, the bill’s sponsor, GOP state Sen. Blaise Ingoglia, said giving the DeSantis administration freedom to conduct missions outside of Florida would help stem the flow of migrants into the state.

“The state of Florida is currently in a state of emergency because of the ineptness and the incompetence of the federal government when it comes to immigration policy,” Ingoglia said Tuesday during a committee hearing on the bill. “In fact, I would say that someone should declare the federal government itself its own disaster area.”

The bill passed the state House on Friday over the strong objections of Democrats, who said the state does not have a constitutional role in addressing the country’s immigration issues. It passed the state Senate on a 27-12 party-line vote Wednesday. Republicans hold supermajorities in both chambers.

“There’s nobody at this table who honestly thinks that we have a good immigration policy right now,” state Sen. Jason Pizzo, a Miami Democrat, said at a news conference Monday. “There’s no one at this table who will say Joe Biden is doing a great job with immigration. However, it’s their authority.”

In September, individuals working on behalf of the DeSantis administration in San Antonio convinced 49 migrants – most if not all asylum-seekers from Venezuela – to board two flights headed to Martha’s Vineyard. As the migrants arrived in Massachusetts to the confusion of locals, DeSantis took credit for arranging the mission during an appearance on Fox News.

Public records have since shed light on the clandestine mission, which included hiring a company with close ties to a DeSantis administration official to arrange the flights and using a woman named “Perla” to help convince migrants to take the flights.

Attorneys for the migrants have filed a class-action lawsuit, saying their clients were misled into agreeing to the flights and had been told that they would arrive to find housing, jobs and help with the immigration process. In fact, nobody on Martha’s Vineyard even knew they were coming, local officials have said. A migrant who aided Perla told CNN that he was misled into helping her recruit migrants for the trip.

On Wednesday, Ingoglia said it was on the migrants to inform the federal government of their location. He insisted that the state would only transport people voluntarily and said that so-called sanctuary jurisdictions are better equipped to provide resources for migrants than Florida.

Under the legislation, $10 million would be reallocated to the program under the state Division of Emergency Management for use through June. DeSantis in his proposed budget set aside another $12 million to continue the program.

Democrats suggested that Republicans were retroactively cleaning up DeSantis’ missteps during the mission to Martha’s Vineyard and helping him raise his profile so he can run for president in 2024.

“What we’re doing right now is carrying the water for the governor, knowing that what he did was wrong, and you are holding your nose to vote for this and saying that it’s right,” said state Sen. Shevrin Jones. “This is wrong. It is not becoming of us as a state. It is not becoming of us as human beings, and it’s definitely not becoming of our resources and how we are about to spend taxpayers’ dollars.”

State Sen. Debbie Mayfield, a Republican, bristled at that suggestion.

“If the federal government was doing their job and securing our border, we would not have to be addressing this issue in Florida,” she said. “To me, it’s just that simple.”

The governor’s controversial flights could resume between now and mid-March after Vertol Systems, the contractor for the program that flew migrants to Martha’s Vineyard, filed an extension to its proposals for two additional migrant flights through March 15, according to new documents obtained by CNN.

CNN previously reported that Vertol Systems was paid $950,000 by the Florida Department of Transportation to fly migrants from Texas to Illinois and Delaware, however, those flights were never conducted. In total, Vertol Systems has received $1,565,000 from the state under DeSantis’ program.

Vertol Systems has repeatedly refused to comment on the migrant flights, or answer any of CNN’s inquiries about their contract.

This story has been updated with additional details.

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Paul Rudd says his son didn’t know he was famous growing up: 'I never corrected him'

Paul Rudd’s son didn’t know his father was famous through most of his childhood, according to the actor. 

In a preview clip promoting Rudd’s appearance on “Sunday Today with Willie Geist,” Rudd revealed his son Jack believed his dad worked in a movie theater for about 10 years during Jack’s childhood.

According to Rudd, it all started when Jack, who was around 4 or 5 years old at the time, and his friends went to the movie theater. 

Rudd said since he didn’t want to “sit (his) kids down” when they were 3 years old and show them all the movies he’s been in, he never “really explained what (he) did.” And there was some confusion.

Paul Rudd said his son thought he worked at a movie theater for 10 years.

Paul Rudd said his son thought he worked at a movie theater for 10 years. ( Jon Kopaloff/WireImage)

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“We were all going, and there was a movie poster that I was on that was in the lobby,” Rudd explained. “So they all just thought that I worked at the movie theater, which I thought was very cute.” 

Rudd explained it took quite a while for his son to realize his dad was actually a famous actor, saying he was around 15 years old when he figured it out. The actor accepted some blame, saying, “I never corrected him,” telling him, “I work at the AMC Lowes.”

He previously shared that both his son and his daughter Darby aren’t very impressed by the fact that he is a Marvel superhero.

“I think I’m Dad more than I’m Ant-Man or in the MCU,” Rudd told People earlier this month. “They don’t care, nor should they.”

The “This Is 40” actor made his first appearance in the Marvel Universe in 2015 in the first “Ant-Man” movie. Rudd plays Scott Lang, an ex-con who is ready to do anything to win back custody of his daughter, when he’s approached by scientist Hank Pym to become Ant-Man and save the world from dangerous technology.

Rudd plays Scott Lang in the "Ant-Man" movies. He becomes a superhero after meeting Hank Pym, played by Michael Douglas.

Rudd plays Scott Lang in the “Ant-Man” movies. He becomes a superhero after meeting Hank Pym, played by Michael Douglas. (Dave J Hogan/Dave J Hogan/Getty Images)

Since the first “Ant-Man” movie, Rudd has appeared as the character in four Marvel movies, including “Captain America: Civil War,” “Ant-Man and the Wasp” and “Avengers Endgame.”

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Rudd is set to appear in the third Ant-Man movie, “Ant-Man and the Wasp: Quantumania,” which also sees the return of Michael Douglas as Hank Pym, Evangeline Lilly as Hope Pym and Michelle Pfeiffer as Janet Van Dyne. 

The movie also stars Evangeline Lilly, Michael Douglas, Kathryn Newton, Michelle Pfeiffer, William Jackson Harper and Jonathan Majors. 

The movie also stars Evangeline Lilly, Michael Douglas, Kathryn Newton, Michelle Pfeiffer, William Jackson Harper and Jonathan Majors.  (Alberto E. Rodriguez/Getty Images for Disney)

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“Ant-Man and the Wasp: Quantumania” premieres Friday, Feb. 17.

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Juvenile charged with murder in Chicago school shooting in December that left 2 dead



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A 16-year-old boy has been charged with murder in the fatal shooting of two students at a Chicago high school in December, police announced Friday. The suspect is charged with two counts of felony first-degree murder and two counts of felony attempted murder, Chicago Police superintendent David Brown announced.

“We currently don’t have a clear motive for why a 16 year old would want to shoot and kill other kids,” Brown said. The suspect’s name was not released Friday due to his age, although Brown said he would face the murder and attempted murder charges as an adult.

Four teenagers were shot December 16 at Benito Juarez High School. The victims who died were both boys, aged 14 and 15, police announced at the time.

Investigators say tips from the public helped lead them to the suspect, who was arrested Thursday. “We are grateful for those who have been brave enough to come forward to ensure that the offender is caught and will now be held accountable,” said Cook County State’s Attorney Kim Foxx.

The suspect is expected to appear in Bond Court Saturday, Brown said, where more details about the evidence they have collected will be presented.

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Butterfly wings inspire labels for better clothing recycling

Labels made with inexpensive photonic fibers could improve clothing recycling, researchers report.

Less than 15% of the 92 million tons of clothing and other textiles discarded annually are recycled—in part because they are so difficult to sort.

“It’s like a barcode that’s woven directly into the fabric of a garment,” says Max Shtein, a professor of materials science and engineering at the University of Michigan and corresponding author of the study in Advanced Materials Technologies.

“We can customize the photonic properties of the fibers to make them visible to the naked eye, readable only under near-infrared light or any combination.”

Ordinary tags often don’t make it to the end of a garment’s life—they may be cut away or washed until illegible, and tagless information can wear off. Recycling could be more effective if a tag was woven into the fabric, invisible until it needs to be read. This is what the new fiber could do.

Recyclers already use near-infrared sorting systems that identify different materials according to their naturally occurring optical signatures—the PET plastic in a water bottle, for example, looks different under near-infrared light than the HDPE plastic in a milk jug.

Different fabrics also have different optical signatures, but those signatures are of limited use to recyclers because of the prevalence of blended fabrics, explains lead author Brian Iezzi, a postdoctoral researcher in Shtein’s lab.

“For a truly circular recycling system to work, it’s important to know the precise composition of a fabric—a cotton recycler doesn’t want to pay for a garment that’s made of 70% polyester,” Iezzi says. “Natural optical signatures can’t provide that level of precision, but our photonic fibers can.”

To develop the technology, the team combined Iezzi and Shtein’s photonic expertise—usually applied to products like displays, solar cells, and optical filters—with the advanced textile capabilities at MIT’s Lincoln Lab. The lab worked to incorporate the photonic properties into a process that would be compatible with large-scale production.

They accomplished the task by starting with a preform—a plastic feedstock that comprises dozens of alternating layers. In this case, they used acrylic and polycarbonate. While each individual layer is clear, the combination of two materials bends and refracts light to create optical effects that can look like color. It’s the same basic phenomenon that gives butterfly wings their shimmer.

The preform is heated and then mechanically pulled—a bit like taffy—into a hair-thin strand of fiber. While the manufacturing process method differs from the extrusion technique used to make conventional synthetic fibers like polyester, it can produce the same miles-long strands of fiber. Those strands can then be processed with the same equipment already used by textile makers.

By adjusting the mix of materials and the speed at which the preform is pulled, the researchers tuned the fiber to create the desired optical properties and ensure recyclability. While the photonic fiber is more expensive than traditional textiles, the researchers estimate that it will only result in a small increase in the cost of finished goods.

“The photonic fibers only need to make up a small percentage—as little as 1% of a finished garment,” Iezzi says. “That might increase the cost of the finished product by around 25 cents—similar to the cost of those use-and-care tags we’re all familiar with.”

In addition to making recycling easier, the photonic labeling could be used to tell consumers where and how goods are made, and even to verify the authenticity of brand-name products, Shtein says. It could be a way to add important value for customers.

“As electronic devices like cell phones become more sophisticated, they could potentially have the ability to read this kind of photonic labeling,” Shtein says. “So I could imagine a future where woven-in labels are a useful feature for consumers as well as recyclers.”

The team has applied for patent protection and is evaluating ways to move forward with the commercialization of the technology.

The National Science Foundation and the Under Secretary of Defense for Research and Engineering funded the work.

Source: University of Michigan

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Ford could save the Mustang and F-Series from going all-electric with synthetic fuel

Ford is heading back to Formula One with Red Bull to develop technologies that could improve the performance of its future electric vehicles; and also a way that may keep the internal combustion engine alive for decades to come.

Ford is spending tens of billions of dollars to launch a range of battery-powered vehicles in the coming years, but has not committed toward going all-electric like some automakers have.

Formula One cars use hybrid power units that are set to increase their level of electrification when new regulations go into effect in 2026 as Ford joins the series.

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The 2024 Ford Mustang is only offered with gasoline-fueled powertrains.

The 2024 Ford Mustang is only offered with gasoline-fueled powertrains. (Ford)

Ford CEO Jim Farley told FOX News Digital that the lessons learned designing motors, batteries and optimized aerodynamics for the race cars can be applied to its production electric and hybrid cars to make them more efficient.

“Formula One is a great marketing platform, but best of all, it’s a good technology-exchange platform,” Farley said.

Ford is not putting its gas and diesel vehicles out to pasture just yet, though. Farley says the industry is not “monolithic” and that electric drivetrains are not suitable for every customer, especially those that tow or are just looking for the sound and fury of a V8. 

Ford CEO Jim Farley, right, was at Red Bull Racing's 2023 season-opening event to announce their future partnership.

Ford CEO Jim Farley, right, was at Red Bull Racing’s 2023 season-opening event to announce their future partnership. (Fatih Aktas/Anadolu Agency via Getty Images)

“Look, we’ll do what’s required, and we’re going to grow our EV business to two million vehicles in four years and most of that will be conquest, but we want these loyal customers who own F-150s and Broncos and Mustangs to continue to have a great experience,” Farley said.

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Even as Dodge prepares to replace its V8 muscle cars with the electric Charger Daytona SRT next year, Ford is introducing a new 2024 Mustang this summer that is only available with either a gasoline-fueled V8 or turbocharged four-cylinder engine, and that could be the case for the next one thanks to something else going on in Formula One. Along with the new power units, the series is switching to a synthetic carbon-neutral fuel in 2026 that emits only as much carbon as is used to produce it.

Porsche has invested in synthetic fuel development.

Porsche has invested in synthetic fuel development. (Porsche)

Formula One has not revealed exactly the type of fuel it will use, but Porsche recently demonstrated a 911 running on a synthetic fuel made at a wind-powered plant in the Chilean desert that captures carbon from the atmosphere to create a net-zero fuel that virtually any car designed to burn gasoline could use without modifications.

Porsche will be using it for its Porsche Mobil 1 Supercup racing series this year at the price of $45 per gallon, but expects to get that down to $8 by 2026 as it scales up the output and continue to reduce the price from there.

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Mark Rushbrook, the global director of Ford Peformance Motorsports, told Fox News Digital the synthetic fuel was a big part of why the company got interested in Formula One.

Ford has not announced any plans for a hybrid or all-electric two-door Mustang.

Ford has not announced any plans for a hybrid or all-electric two-door Mustang. (Ford)

“We are committed to full electric vehicles, it’s an important part of our future, but we also know we’re going to have combustion engine vehicles in different parts of the world for a long time, and we want to do that in the most responsible way that we can,” Rushbrook said.

Ford entered a Ranger Raptor pickup running low-carbon fuel in the 2022 Baja 1000 race.

Ford entered a Ranger Raptor pickup running low-carbon fuel in the 2022 Baja 1000 race. (Ford)

Last year, Ford ran a Ranger Raptor pickup in the Baja 1000 off-road race that used a low-carbon fuel developed by Shell that was made from more than “30% sustainably sourced bio components.”

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“So it’s an important emphasis for us to, as we keep these combustion engines, to do it in a responsible way and this step into Formula One will help us as well,” Rushbrook said.

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'Your Place or Mine' pairs Ashton Kutcher and Reese Witherspoon in a split-screen rom-com



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Add “Your Place or Mine” to the list of split-screen rom-coms, where the stars (in this case Reese Witherspoon and Ashton Kutcher) essentially operate on parallel tracks. While that has worked out before (think “Sleepless in Seattle”), it doesn’t here, in a Netflix movie that proves roughly as generic as its title.

Kutcher and Witherspoon received some playful mockery for the awkwardness of their red-carpet photos together, but when you actually see the film it makes more sense, since the two share relatively few scenes. Then again, the movie is as much about real estate as romance, as well as the familiar question of paths taken and not chosen.

Despite a fleeting history described as a “hookup,” Kutcher’s Peter and Witherspoon’s Debbie have been platonic friends for 20 years. They still talk regularly, with him leading the life of a wealthy playboy business consultant in New York (Batman without the cool toys), and her located in Los Angeles, grappling with the challenges of single motherhood to a 13-year-old son (Wesley Kimmel, Jimmy’s nephew), whose allergies make her a trifle overprotective.

Scheduled to spend a week in New York getting a degree that will advance her career, Debbie abruptly loses her babysitting, at which point Peter gallantly steps in, offering to fly to LA and stay at her house and look after her kid while she occupies his luxury apartment.

In the process, they both get to walk a few miles in the other’s shoes (and lives), like one of those reality-TV shows, only with a better musical score and nicer accessories.

Ashton Kutcher in the Netflix romantic comedy "Your Place or Mine."

Written and directed by Aline Brosh McKenna of “Crazy Ex-Girlfriend” renown (who also produced along with, among others, Witherspoon and Jason Bateman), “Your Place” hinges on Peter and Debbie learning to appreciate each other’s differences – she’s a stickler for routine, while he’s free-spirited, or “irresponsible” in her eyes – through their house-swap experiences.

That’s weak fuel to keep the wheels churning even on this sort of vehicle, so various subplots emerge, like Peter trying to loosen up restrictions on Debbie’s kid, and Debbie discovering an unpublished book Peter has written, which comes into play when his eager-to-be-chummy ex-girlfriend (Zoë Chao) introduces her to a dashing (and also divorced) publisher, played by Jesse Williams.

Brosh McKenna clearly knows her way around the genre (her writing credits also include “27 Dresses”), as do her stars. The supporting players – including Steve Zahn as a hippie-dippy LA neighbor – are quirky enough to shoulder some of the load.

Even grading on a rom-com curve, though, the structure makes the movie a bit of a slog as it oscillates between Debbie and Peter’s arcs, after the latter has rather feebly explained that the two aren’t together by saying, “Because she’s her, and I’m me.”

“Your Place or Mine” will probably do just fine for Netflix, standing out from a pack of Valentine’s Day-timed rom-coms because Witherspoon is her, and Kutcher is him. But those awkward red-carpet photos weren’t the only part of this exercise that didn’t quite work, whatever place one happens to watch it.

“Your Place or Mine” premieres February 10 on Netflix. It’s rated PG-13.

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